Lisa told me she let go of a romantic relationship in her life that wasn’t working but felt very conflicted about it. When I asked her if it was the right thing for her to do, she gave an emphatic yes! When I asked how she felt about herself after letting it go, she said she felt great and knew it was absolutely the right thing to do. So I asked, where is the conflict? She said she felt a deep void and emptiness and couldn’t stop thinking about him.
Our thoughts are the final letting go, and that is when you get the opportunity to practice, again and again, eventually you will let go completely. Think of the void as creating space, room for new opportunities to come in. This can be in all areas of your life, including your relationships, job, health, and money.